at1as 4 days ago

I had two hosts cancel on me (last minute, both times around Christmas) and haven't dared to use Airbnb since (it was very inconvenient to find alternate accommodation last minute, to say the least.)

I understand that there can be exceptional circumstances. However, I've stayed in more hotels by a factor of at least 25, and this has never happened once. In fact, any minor inconvenience at a hotel is usually remedied promptly, and user reviews generally feel accurate.

Airbnb wouldn't share any information about why the host was allowed to cancel (I understand there may be privacy concerns, but I'm left wondering if they simply found a better paying private offer, given it was for the holiday season and booked well in advance). In one case I found an alternative in the same building, so there was no widespread issue.

Those two are enough to put me off Airbnb forever. I just don't want the additional stress of wondering whether I'll receive a last minute cancellation, even if they're exceedingly rare.

ecspike 4 days ago

Yeah, the ability for hosts to cancel on a whim and the couple of cases where racist hosts canceled in the middle of the night kinda put me off trying them. I know exactly what I'm getting in a hotel.

Vaslo 3 days ago

What did they do that was racist?

b3ing 3 days ago

It’s pretty well known some hosts cancel if your profile picture shows you with to much melanin to be wanted

Larrikin 3 days ago

There are dozens of articles you can Google where the host doesn't even try to hide it

randycupertino 3 days ago

My biggest gripe with airbnbs is strict check-in time. I had one with such a narrow window we were so stressed the entire drive there would we make it in time. At least at hotels you can show up whenever you want. Stop for dinner, stop for gas, "we'll leave the light on for you."

suburban_strike 3 days ago

> At least at hotels you can show up whenever you want. Stop for dinner, stop for gas, "we'll leave the light on for you."

This has bitten me in the ass. I fully prepaid for a booking via Expedia but due to plane delays arrived a few hours late (1am). By the time I got there the hotel had rented the room to someone else, had no more available, and everyone else in town was booked.

They blamed me for not checking in on time but considering there was a room available for the couple that came in after us, the real story is that there was a convention going on in town and last-minute attendees were willing to pay 10x more than I did. So they silently dropped my reservation and left me to fuck myself.

Don't count on hotels letting you check in whenever you want. Times have changed...

dml2135 3 days ago

This has also happened to me twice. In both cases, it was when we got a good price booking well in advance for a known-busy season, and the cancellation was last minute and left us totally screwed because there were no alternative accommodations available within our budget.

In both cases, Airbnb would only offer us a refund plus maybe like 10%. They would not make any effort to rebook us at an equivalent property.

My theory is that because Airbnb does not sufficiently penalize hosts for these sort of late cancellations, hosts are incentivized to cancel cheap bookings to get a more expensive booking on another platform if prices meaningfully increase.

gamblor956 3 days ago

I've only had two instances where a hotel was unable to accommodate my reservation. The first time, they booked me in an room at the nearest hotel with space, which happened to be a competitor and an upgraded room. The second time, the hotel booked me into the largest room they had available, which happened to be their Presidential suite. (I booked through my credit card's "The Edit" program.)

I've had several AirBnb hosts cancel. Airbnb provided an alternative option the first time but the second time did not. Luckily my credit card's travel insurance treated it like a hotel booking and was able to secure a reservation at a nearby hotel. And that was the last time I used AirBnB.

dvfjsdhgfv 3 days ago

> they simply found a better paying private offer, given it was for the holiday season and booked well in advance

This happened to me on booking.com, twice. The host didn't allow prepayment, and when the payment time arrived, they cancelled saying there is a problem with the credit card. I tried to contact them but they didn't respond. Booking.com didn't care. From that time on I generally prefer hotels than private apartments.

egorfine 3 days ago

> cancel on me (last minute, both times around Christmas

I don't think it ever makes sense for an AirBnB host to honor early reservation for holidays. The price they lock you in advance is just their stoploss, while the actual market closer to the date provides an almost guaranteed upside. Bonus points if they collect your payment in advance: free credit!

DrVoltz 3 days ago

Man, that's like buying a buying an options contract 6 months out, and then your broker calling the day before you cash in to inform you that the firm which sold it to you has declared taksies-backsies. You sell something that far out, you're entering a contract to trade a hypothetical profit margin for a certain payout.

expedition32 3 days ago

Yeah with a hotel I can book 2 months in advance and not have to think about it.

Airbnb hosts are not expected to have professionalism.

ndsipa_pomu 3 days ago

There needs to be some Airbnb penalty for hosts that cancel bookings. Maybe ban them for a couple of months or increase their listing charges.

Yizahi 3 days ago

The same happened to me some time before Covid. I booked a nice villa half a year in advance when it was reasonably priced, for summer vacation. Booking was accepted by host. Everything was silent for months and then they cancelled with only weeks remaining until the trip. So of course I had to pay 50-100% more for the similar rental and have only 1/10 of the offers because everything was booked by then. No refunds, no excuses, no explanations.

Never opened AirBNB site again after that. Zero customer protection plus shitty fees and hidden traps (no linen/towels rental was a nasty surprise one time).

sidewndr46 3 days ago

Most of the AirBNB I have tried to book recently are some kind of scam. I get a message immediately from the host that the property is undergoing renovations, but they have another property available. The host tells me to cancel it and pay them via some other platform.

csomar 3 days ago

The thing is, in order to get legitimate reviews, they have to pay money to AirBnb. The lengths scammers go through these days is astonishing.

sidewndr46 3 days ago

how does that work?

suburban_strike 3 days ago

Yep, the last few I tried to book came back trying to shake me down for additional deposits via third party platform.

csomar 3 days ago

To be honest/fair, this is an old issue. They now penalize landlords who do that, which means if your host did, they probably have a very good reason. Not saying there aren't a host of other issues with airbnbs and that for many situations having a hotel is a better deal.

nothercastle 3 days ago

If they have cleaned up they have done a shit job communicating how they are fighting fraud and protecting users

at1as 3 days ago

I think the correct incentive alignment in this case would be that Airbnb (instead of the customer) takes responsibility for finding and booking an alternative of the same quality, whatever the cost.

That would, in turn, incentivize them to minimize this behavior. And it would alleviate my concerns. Yes, they'll eat the cost occasionally, but they'd arguably still have my business - so they can weigh the benefits of that

ghtbircshotbe 3 days ago

Reminds me of megabus, a discount greyhound type bus. The last time I used it it didn't show up, with no refund, and an obnoxious runaround on the phone. I was amazed anyone would run a business like that; not surprised to see they went bankrupt in 2024. I've since given up on buses entirely. Greyhound shows up on schedule but is still a thoroughly unpleasant experience

hadlock 3 days ago

We had an airbnb cancel on us for Thanksgiving back in september, because it was "double-booked" it was the last AirBNB in the area. We have (had, rather) people flying in from out of country to meet for Thanksgiving at the AirBNB (it's one of those big 7 room things designed for that sort of thing) and it's completely up-ended our holiday plans. I couldn't be more disappointed in the platform.

bdangubic 13 hours ago

Same reason I never use Airbnb any longer. Used it exclusively for years, 10–15x per year. Not sure how they even stay in business doing this on the regular plus all the other craziness you have to put up with

dkga 4 days ago

Contrarian view here but honestly I can't imagine not cleaning up after yourself by default. Of course I am not saying that I do a deep clean at every place I stay but if I'm staying in an AirBNB the very least I do is to leave the place in a civilised way. For example, if I use kitchen utensils I either clean them or put in the dishwasher when available. I seriously never understood people that just leave completely dirty things behind, especially when they are travelling with their kids.

Arainach 4 days ago

You can still do that. The host just can't require you to do that - especially after charging a mandatory cleaning fee.

I mostly stopped using AirBnB due to the impact of their existence and lobbying on cities and affordable housing, but after my final few stays I was ready to quit over the huge fees, the fact those fees were hidden when searching, and the absurd rules BS.

pizza234 4 days ago

I can see both sides of the issue, that is, hosts protecting themselves (to an extent) from dirty guests. I've seen once the huge pile of dishes in a shared stay, and it wasn't nice.

I think it's not a big issue for people who clean up after themselves daily, but on the other hand, sparing those last 10 minutes on the checkout morning... ;)

gdulli 4 days ago

I would never be expected to clean my dishes after ordering room service in a hotel. The price of an AirBNB would have to be much cheaper than a hotel in order for me to do my own cleaning. And in my city at least, it never was.

em-bee 4 days ago

but you are paying extra for the room service. the price pf washing is included in that. when i bring my own food then i totally expect to clean the dishes i use from the host myself.

epcoa 4 days ago

And most AirBnBs charge cleaning fees. So if you’re not paying for “cleaning” what exactly is it?

nonethewiser 3 days ago

Yeah but what if they dont?

babelfish 3 days ago

I have been using the platform for about a decade and have never once seen an Airbnb without cleaning fees

wildzzz 3 days ago

I've stayed in some guesthouses that didn't charge a cleaning fee. I assume the owner just walked over and did the cleaning themselves.

em-bee 2 days ago

or they factored the cost of cleaning into their price. doing the cleaning as a host myself is not a reason not to charge a cleaning fee if that is the way i make my money.

the whole thing with a cleaning fee is either to allow the advertised room price to appear lower (but doesn't airbnb now factor the cleaning fee into the price shown?) or alternatively to make longer stays cheaper because the cleaning fee is not applied for every day).

em-bee 3 days ago

ok, yes, it depends how high the cleaning fee is. and i would also consider what is normal usage.

for example if i spend a several days or longer in a place and instead of washing and reusing dishes as i would at home, i never wash any dishes but use up all the available dishes instead then i would not consider that normal.

dirty dishes also contain leftover food which can rot, or dry up, making it hard to clean, etc, you don't want to leave that stuff out for to long.

bed sheets on the other hand i wouldn't wash unless i am there long enough that i want to reuse them myself. the rest is just keeping things tidy and not leave chaos behind.

Vaslo 3 days ago

What’s that ridiculous cleaning fee for then?

barrkel 3 days ago

Short term rentals universally include a cleaning fee.

tayo42 4 days ago

They're usually charging you over 100 for a cleaning fee and pitch them selves like a hotel stay.

I think if homes were presented as a home, not a residential hotel, along with lower prices, cleaning would be perceived differently.

bastawhiz 3 days ago

There's a difference between putting dishes in the dishwasher and doing the dishes. I'm glad to put trash in the trash can. I'm not willing to take the trash down two flights of stairs and find the right dumpster. I'm willing to put my sheets in the washing machine. I'm not willing to do the laundry.

oska 3 days ago

> There's a difference between putting dishes in the dishwasher and doing the dishes.

I'm not seeing it. If there isn't a dishwasher then you do the dishes.

I'm not a fan of Airbnb but I agree with the GP that you should clean up after yourself in this respect (cleaning dishes that you have used).

warunsl 3 days ago

Fine, let's say I do it. Why is there still an exorbitant "cleaning fee"?

econ 3 days ago

There is a difference between paying and forcing someone to do it. The later might kill you.

xoa 3 days ago

>Why is there still an exorbitant "cleaning fee"

Are you serious? I do the dishes and take out trash/recycling (and other regular cleaning work) as an obvious matter of course to not live in a total stinky shithole. But also once a month we pay for a real service to do a serious cleaning that gets into all the corners and under furniture and ceiling and descaling in the bathroom (hard water) etc etc, which my SO wants kept up with and I think that's reasonable. Between kids, pets, guests and so on more accumulates in a house then trivial regular clean up deals with. They're not the same thing; everyone is expected to do their dishes and contribute to taking out the trash or other chores, but not necessarily to putting on heavier duty protective kit and dealing with bathroom tile or oven accumulation. And obviously there's a fee for that (and putting it off to 2-4 months isn't actually necessarily helpful if it ends up meaning each cleaning takes much longer and thus costs more).

Not having used in forever nor ever run an AirBnB, I will say that yes, I can see it being annoying to get charged if you were just there overnight and caused no issues. And I strongly think that anything which is part of standard practice after every single visit should also be part of the upfront price not a "fee". Extra fees should only be for unique things, like someone actually creating a big mess that takes extra time. But I also think basic humanity that takes a few minutes is different from something that takes an hour and extra equipment. If you leave a sink full of dirty dishes or trash laying around that's disrespectful, gross, will get worse much more quickly then dust bunnies. I'd be ok with dinging someone for that. Cleaners aren't lesser people servants, they're specialist professionals there to help not be maids to spoiled brats. A hotel room (or BnB) mini kitchen isn't a full service restaurant. If you want that level of help that to me feels reasonable to say is extra.

jonathanlydall 3 days ago

Comes across as double dipping to me if the cleaning fee is exorbitant AND the guest is expected to make an accommodation spotless before checkout.

I'm not in any way saying it's respectable to leave "a mess" in an accommodation which charges a cleaning fee, but a small amount of dirty dishes in a sink (if there is no dishwasher) or not having washed linen is not in my view leaving a place "in a mess" as the host is expected to do a certain amount of cleaning regardless since trusting guests to do it would be reckless and this can be unreasonably time consuming for guests and challenging if they have small kids.

If there is _no_ cleaning fee and the terms were clear that full clean-up of the accommodation is expected, then fair enough, guest saves on cost by doing the work themselves and if they don't they deserve a negative rating.

I guess AirBnb has found that many hosts use it as an excuse to penalize guests or to claim it's not the host's fault if the place was not clean on arrival of the next guest, so it's just simpler for AirBnb to set a baseline of host service expectation.

triceratops 3 days ago

Dirty dishes are meant to be in the sink, and trash is meant to be in the trash can. There's no disrespect to cleaners by leaving things where they're meant to be. It doesn't make you a "spoiled brat".

If anything it means more of the $150 cleaning fee actually goes to the cleaners. Otherwise the cleaners only get paid for 30 minutes of light dusting and changing sheets while the owner pockets the rest.

ProfessorLayton 3 days ago

no, fuck that, they charge a cleaning fee.

blks 3 days ago

Airbnb charges a cleaning fee.

jonathanlydall 3 days ago

My understanding is that hosts optionally specify cleaning fee charges.

SOLAR_FIELDS 3 days ago

You are correct

SOLAR_FIELDS 3 days ago

My issue is the double dipping. You want me to clean? Fine, waive the cleaning fee. You don’t get to charge me the fucking cleaning fee and also ask me to clean. Pick one

BizarroLand 3 days ago

Exactly. The cleaning fee should cover when the place is left a mess, and it should be refunded when the place is left clean.

But it should never be on the tenant to ensure that the property is prepared for the next guest.

tstrimple 3 days ago

I do these sorts of things all the time for cabin rentals. It's pretty standard there. But the cost typically also reflects it. I'd be fine with the same sort of situation on AirBnB, but the fees and such change the calculations really quickly.

snarkytables 3 days ago

+100. Airbnb hosts in he PNW region (incl BC area) have unreal expectations. The cleaning costs are "island typical" i.e. high and they expect you to : i) do the dishes & unload the dish washer , ii) load the sheets into the washer and leave it running, iii) take the trash and recycling to the bin, and iv) make sure there is no residual smell from anything you might have cooked in the kitchen and more.

wildzzz 3 days ago

I've got no issue with tossing trash bags into the can outside and running the dishwasher before I go. Airbnbs are not cleaned immediately after you leave so it's reasonable not to leave rotting food around. I also don't stay in luxury airbnbs, it's usually just when I want to stay with others or the nearby hotels are more expensive or too far away. I've also never stayed someone that some has expected cleaning from me beyond what I think is reasonable (see above).

I did have someone once ask me to strip the bed but that's just boomer hospitality etiquette expectations. It takes no time to strip a bed and the cleaners will need to touch the sheets anyway so why am I doing it?

hintymad 3 days ago

I think the hassle lies in uncertainty. Different hosts have different stands on house chores. One may expect me to simply put dishes in the dishwasher, while another may expect me to wash and dry all their bedsheets. Many people would rather just get out of this worry all together.

shellfishgene 3 days ago

I'd prefer not to wash sheets of course, but also because I wouldn't trust previous guests to acually do it instead of just shaking the sheets out and putting them back.

Brian_K_White 3 days ago

I do favors and chores for friends & family, or at a hostel where you pay nothing & get nothing and everyone has to diy, not for someone who charges me money.

The new rules already clearly and explicitly describe leaving things "in a civilized way". No one is suggesting it's ok to destroy a place.

esperent 3 days ago

> at a hostel where you pay nothing

Which hostels are these? Because all the ones around me cost €50-€80 a night for the privilege of sleeping in a room with twelve strangers.

Brian_K_White 3 days ago

Most places a hostel is far less than any hotel in the same area at the same time, and offers equally less amenities. That's the definition and point of their existence.

If you live somewhere that only has bad deal hostels that no one should use, oh well. So do I probably. I've never looked in NJ. It just means there also exists hostels in the world that I would not use or would not do chores for.

helsinkiandrew 3 days ago

In Finland, summer cottage rental self-cleaning (and bringing your own towels and bedding) is common - with an additional fee if you don't want to do it yourself.

It really brings down the price of a single night or weekend stay when you're just using the bed and bathroom and cleaning is a 10 minute job.

SOLAR_FIELDS 3 days ago

Yes, Sweden is the same, there’s often an optional upcharge to get linens and towels etc and for cleaning and it’s often quite reasonable and in line with the amount of labor involved. I often end up paying it unless, like you say, you’re only briefly using the facilities and cleaning up is a 5-10 minute job. I think it’s quite a reasonable approach, people don’t ask for a deep clean but sweeping tossing dishes in the dishwasher etc.

I think it only works in a high trust society, my fellow American countrymen are mostly incapable of actually doing what they promise in this regard, the nordics have enough societal responsibility and shame involved that you can reasonably expect people to do what is asked of them. A system like this in America would probably fall over from abuse by people who would not pay for the cleaning and then not do it

jonathanlydall 3 days ago

Makes a lot of sense.

My father runs a few guest suites out his house and the cleaning cost, wear and tear of washing linen makes single night stays really impact his bottom line, hence him having a cleaning fee which is per stay rather than per night.

Prospective guests can then choose for themselves if they feel the overhead of the cleaning fee for such a single night is worth it for them and my father doesn't land up with uneconomical stays.

bargl 3 days ago

The problem is that the cleaning fee is how many hosts gain additional profit. They self clean and add chores.

I know hosts that do this.

The guide for guest behavior is pretty much good guest guidelines like ensuring no trash is left out.

Its past time airbnb standardize the experience here more.

LANcaster 3 days ago

In August I was renting Airbnb for 2 weeks. On departure day I left all trash sorted in the bags in the kitchen, and dishes collected from all the apartament in the sink.

18 days later I’ve get notice from Airbnb that I’ll be charged $50 (45 EUR) for damages. The host decided that this required deep cleaning. What’s more important for $50 you can find a cleaning company for 2-3 hours in Warsaw.

ivraatiems 3 days ago

Airbnb is in many ways reinventing hotels from first principles. The economics and incentive structure of "just let somebody crash on your couch" are not at all the same as what Airbnb is currently doing or expecting guests/hosts to do. Guests treat the place like a hotel, but don't act as respectfully as they would in a hotel. Hosts charge what it costs to run something like a hotel, but don't provide the level of service necessary to qualify as a hotel, and at the same prices. Everyone is unhappy because everybody's expectations are unreasonable.

Who is creating the perception of what the product is? Airbnb. Who is making decisions that piss off both groups? Airbnb. But they're also squeezed by the unrealistic expectations of both sides.

I don't see a good way out of this, and the comment section isn't encouraging. People are either "hosts" or "guests" and they only care about the side they relate to.

Daishiman 3 days ago

A hotel vs crashing on a couch are so culturally different that it's not really possible to hold them under the same brand.

HDThoreaun 3 days ago

Airbnb is most useful as a hotel for massive groups because hotels 1 big house is way nicer than 3+ seperate hotel rooms.

olelele 2 days ago

AirBNB has been abused as a short term rental platform by more or less slum lords. This has exacerbated housing situations all over the world, I saw it in Berlin. Portugal has had similar problems.

It is not a serious platform IMO. Just like über, it invests absolutely nothing in the infrastructure it feeds off.

toomuchtodo 16 hours ago

Airbnb is consumers learning short term lodging regulations over again. Crypto is consumers learning financial regulations over again. Ridesharing and delivery gig work is consumers learning labor regulations over again. It's all just an economic grift to capture the duration between when the starting gun fires and existing regulations apply.

TNWin 4 days ago

I found some hair in my Mariott bed sheets. I didn't think it was a big deal but decided to see if I could get fresh sheets. The hotel changed it at 9pm within 10 minutes. Offered me points. Apologized profusely.

What do you think would have been my experience at Airbnb?

zamadatix 4 days ago

Hopefully "no hair in an unclean bed" but I guess everyone's expectations are just at rock bottom these days to the point that we think this is an example to compare things with?

dcrazy 3 days ago

Should that Marriott have used their time machine to retroactively keep the hair out of the bedsheets? They did what they could in the moment, because they realized that it was a fuckup.

zamadatix 3 days ago

The Marriott had a great response for the mistake, I'd not expect more in that regard - or even that much, and they are my preferred hotel brand. I just wouldn't set that mistake as the normal starting place for making comparisons of our base expectations was my only point.

I.e. this wasn't "and I want to speak to your manager!" it was "oh, I guess needing to start by comparing what happens when we just assume things are going to go wrong is where we're at nowadays?". Marriott is good because these kinds of things are rare in the first place, not because you get a nice apology.

flowerthoughts 3 days ago

If you cannot accept that a hair was on a bed sheet and it was fixed promptly when reported, I cannot even imagine what your hotel bills look like. Every hotel room I've been to at $100-$2000 per night have had some issue I would consider beyond a hair on a bed sheet.

zamadatix 3 days ago

I can more than accept it, it's just not where I'd start my expectation comparisons is all I said.

Sorry you seem to have had so many problems with your rooms though, usually mine are a lot better than unclean sheets or worse.

nunez 3 days ago

Easy. I can tell you.

Host isn't available. There might or might not be extras. Wash the dirty sheet yourself. Wait until cleaning can come by next day.

Hotels win every time.

annzabelle 4 days ago

My extended family rents a beach cottage for one week (saturday-saturday or sunday-sunday) every summer at a family oriented beach in North Carolina. We have done this at the same beach since the early 90s. There are local vacation rental agencies that have offered one week rentals with various packages of linens under similar terms and seasonal pricing for decades. Over the last few years, fewer and fewer houses are available directly from these rental companies and more and more are only listed on Airbnb or VRBO, with nightly pricing that is much higher than the weekly pricing from the local rental agencies.

The vacation rental companies offer very consistent cleaning services and local contacts for any issues with the house, and were relatively cheap because they were typically able to fill these houses with weeklong rentals all summer.

With Airbnb and VRBO, sometimes they are just a marketplace for the exact same rental companies that already existed, under the same terms and conditions, but a higher nightly price, and sometimes they are far less professional operations, and it's not easy to tell which is which when you are initially paying.

Last summer we rented a house directly through a vacation rental company that was also listed on VRBO for a third of the nightly price it was listed on VRBO for. We're dreading the day when the only option left is VRBO.

sailfast 4 days ago

It’s absolutely insane how much you have to pay for all the advertising, network effects, and exposure these platforms grant you.

Would be so much better if every region just started their own again and you just looked up property managers in the yellow pages haha

lifestyleguru 3 days ago

All holiday rental platforms charge somewhere between 17-22%. Responsibility of a platform is zero. As a guest all you can do if something goes wrong is to shorten the stay after hanging 1 hour on the customer service phone line. Everyone would be better off with some local message boards and visitors taking few extra steps to find holiday rental.

rainsford 3 days ago

That's hasn't been my experience at all with at least some local rental companies. A popular vacation area near me has a local rental company with significant market share and they have a local office and local staff that can come out to help with things like maintenance issues.

I've used them a lot and have found them very responsive with none of the Airbnb type horror stories. For vacations where you want a house instead of a hotel room, companies like this are a VAST improvement over Airbnb because they offer the type of local service that Airbnb will never be able to do at scale.

dcrazy 3 days ago

We did the same with a vacation rental in Hawaii this year. The properties in the neighborhood are owned by individual investors as vacation rentals, but they ultimately contract with a handful of full-service vacation rental agencies. Seeking out the agencies’ websites was worth a 25% discount over renting the same property on AirBnB.

annzabelle 3 days ago

Exact same setup here though I realize I didn't quite state it directly, the cottages are owned by individuals but all rented out through the agencies.

We got a much steeper discount, I'm assuming because we were solidly in shoulder season (a couple weeks after kids return to school in North Carolina, and during hurricane season), which the vacation rental company accounts for in their seasonal pricing, but VRBO didn't seem to. At this beach in particular, it is a summer vacation for families and you get a steep drop in prices if you don't have to schedule around school holidays, but VRBO didn't price that in in the same way that the local companies do.

dcrazy 3 days ago

Yes, for those without children to schedule around, vacationing just before or after other people’s children’s school vacations is the primary trick.

bad_haircut72 4 days ago

I stopped using AirBnB altogether because of the rediculous cleaning rules and fees. Probably not going back but at least they're addressing it.

mrj 4 days ago

Market share has been falling, quick, listen to what the customers have been saying for a decade!

fakedang 3 days ago

Is it falling really? Would love to see some evidence.

paxy 3 days ago

It's sad in a way because this is Airbnb finally abandoning its original "make money by renting out your couch" premise. The handful of remaining small-time hosts offering their actual residence are probably going to leave after these changes, and professionally managed short-term rental properties are going to complete their takeover.

olelele 3 days ago

Sorry but AirBnB was used for exploiting Berlin rents for years. Lots of ppl renting 5+ apartments and blocking them from locals who needed places to stay. The mother of an acquaintance had to move out of Berlin into Brandenburg bc she couldn’t get a normal rental contract anymore after a lifetime in the city. She was low income on disability retirement.

willio58 4 days ago

Thank god.

Call me lazy but I’ve always wondered why I need to take out the trash when a cleaning crew was coming in 10 minutes after I checked out.

gottorf 4 days ago

Not only that, a cleaning crew that I'm explicitly paying for via the cleaning fee. It was ridiculous, and I'm sure it drove a lot of people to choose hotels over an equivalent Airbnb.

fakedang 3 days ago

The only draw of Airbnbs was the idea of either really dirt cheap temp accommodation, or exotic stays at fancy locations. Airbnb exited the former market, and incumbent hotels have entered and do a much better job in the latter market.

mathgeek 4 days ago

Same. I have consistently left feedback that even the idea of such policies makes me choose airbnb less. Haven’t used them in several years now due to the possibility.

xp84 4 days ago

Thing is, the cleaning fee is "just" a fixed fee that goes down, as a proportion of your total bill, the longer you stay. Not really a bad deal.

People would have accepted this principle just fine if they just put it in the damn total price shown, so you could do a fair comparison between your lodging options.

They could have structured their reservations system the same as say, Hilton does - when you book 5 nights, and the nights vary in price due to demand, say it's $100, $100, $200, $100, $100, they just show "$120 per night (avg)".

Instead AirBNB thought they could get cute and pretend that this fixed part of the charge is not part of the price at all, it's this one separate purpose. Well, of course people are going to expect that if they're literally paying $200 for a cleaning crew (a cleaning that will take maybe 90 minutes max and cost the owner far less than $200), why the F can't they take the trash out? They did this to themselves.

wildzzz 3 days ago

I've stayed in some places where no one had rented the place for a few days beforehand. I get in town early and want to at least drop off my bags or maybe just shower or nap. In a few of these cases, there's been a cleaning crew there finishing up. I don't think the cleaners are always showing up right after you leave. They obviously will if there is someone else checking in that day but I think it's more likely cleaners will come before you arrive rather than immediately after. I think this is especially true for the places that ask you to dispose of trash and wash any dishes before you go, they don't want rotting food sitting around attracting pests.

syntaxing 4 days ago

There’s also been documented cases of owners using AI edited images to claim guests damage. Airbnb has a systemic cultural issue.

brookst 4 days ago

They’re a two-sided marketplace where the parties are incentivized to be adversarial. Every renter want to pay less / get money back, every landlord wants to minimize cost and stick renters with extra costs.

There’s a reason municipalities have landlord/tenant laws, and Airbnb’s whole thing was offering hotel-like services at sub-hotel pricing, without hitting landlord/tenant.

They’ve arbitraged themselves out of existence (but not before making a nice profit for Airbnb shareholders).

Eueudhsbsj32 4 days ago

Maybe it's a regional issue. I have over 150 stays in my account (digital nomad for the last 10 years), and I've not once had any unreasonable charge or conflict with a host.

gib444 3 days ago

Ride sharing apps too. Taxi drivers defrauding with fake pictures of vomit etc

Any service with terms basically that say "we have the right to charge your card whatever we like for whatever reason " will eventually abuse it

See also: car rental

ButlerianJihad 3 days ago

Has anyone here actually stayed in a real Bed & Breakfast?

I don't know if they really exist anymore, but I did stay in an honest-to-God B&B, long ago. I cannot remember where it was or why I was staying there. But I do recall that it was a rustic, quaint, actual residential house, that had many bedrooms converted into guest rooms. And my room was well-decorated (nothing like a Motel 6) and it had a very nice featherbed with flowered comforter, and all sorts of comforts just like home.

And of course, the key to a real B&B is the breakfast. When I awoke in the morning (I only stayed one night!) the hosts were downstairs, serving a delicious homemade buffet breakfast spread. It was a fantastic time.

The hosts were very personable and kind, and I felt very welcome there. It was, of course, regulated just like any hotel in the hospitality industry, so it went without saying that these hosts carried insurance and had a lot of rules to follow, letting strangers into their "home" which was obviously, 100% a business at that point.

Yeah, I don't know if there are any bona fide Bed & Breakfast hotels left in this world. AirBNB has certainly ruined the traditional terminology for that sector.

kotaKat 3 days ago

Yes. Travel to American Siberia (upstate New York) and you can stay in a converted old brick schoolhouse (formerly serving up until its very end in the 2000s, K-2 students): https://www.shermaninnbandb.com/

PyWoody 3 days ago

Come to New England. There are B&B's everywhere.

jmisavage 3 days ago

I stayed at an Airbnb a couple of weekends ago where we were asked to take out the trash, start the dishwasher, put used towels in the downstairs shower, and strip all the bedding and leave it at the foot of the bed. It felt a little outrageous given what I paid for the weekend. The kicker was that we found stains on some of the pillows and the comforter from previous guests. At some point, you have to wonder what exactly the cleaning fee is for. I'm glad Airbnb is finally starting to crack down on this behavior.

olelele 3 days ago

The business model of airBnB and Über should not be legal.

Externalizing the costs and privatizing the profits.

analog31 4 days ago

It's interesting how Airbnb has diverged from its original vibe of "staying at somebody's house." When I "stay at somebody's house" I wash the dishes, take out the trash, etc. Essentially, leave it as I found it, if not a bit better. I also expect "somebody's house" to be cleaner than a hotel.

Granted, Airbnb has taken on the hotel industry, and so I'm not surprised that their rules have evolved.

cyanydeez 4 days ago

These things are banned because they became the Amazon equivalent of low balling rates and tacking on shipping fees.

The relationship to homliness really has nothing to do with this. Your friends never charged you to stay then charge 4x that because you left some trash.

brailsafe 4 days ago

I agree about how one should conduct themselves in someone else's home, but is it really that interesting how they progressed as a technology company? To me it seems like the tried and true formula of enshittification. It's the startup playbook.

cobolcomesback 4 days ago

You do those things when you’re staying at a friend or family member’s place. But your friends and family aren’t charging you hundreds of dollars a night, plus a $250 cleaning fee.

It’s not just Airbnb the company that moved away from it, it’s the Airbnb hosts that moved away from it as soon as opportunists started becoming mega landlords renting out ikea-furnished party houses. It hasn’t been the original “person with a spare room for a weekend” Airbnb in a long, long time.

FireBeyond 3 days ago

In Tacoma, a "party house" suffered an arson attack recently. The theory/rumors, etc., are that it was a neighbor, pissed off with the constant noise, traffic, etc. The home is right by the Narrows bridge, views, etc., and rentable.

The other part of the theory is since it is owned by a former NFL player (and a Seahawk, at that), that local police were reluctant to rock the boat too much. Neighbors got frustrated, and well, maybe?

add-sub-mul-div 4 days ago

You went by a "vibe" they wanted you to believe instead of the fact that you pay hotel rates to stay at these houses?

Esophagus4 4 days ago

I thought the point was (at least initially) that you’re not paying hotel rates

add-sub-mul-div 4 days ago

The only way I ever saw a savings was by getting a lesser experience in terms of location, amenities, privacy, predictability, etc.

skeeter2020 4 days ago

I find you get more space & amenities for the same price, but it's not much - if any - cheaper.

walrus01 4 days ago

Staying with my family and friends and helping with common household chores, the same as I would be doing at my own home, is a completely different thing than paying $150-350 a night to some rando.

skeeter2020 4 days ago

I recently used airbnb quite a bit in Newfoundland, Nova Scotia and New Brunswick and found quite a bit of that old vibe, ranging from a spare room in a young brother & sister's house, to more suite-style accomodation. I was very happy with all my stays, specifically the hosts who balanced privacy with friendly helpfulness.

MiroslavPokorny 3 days ago

...and you believed that it was ?

mxxx 3 days ago

Not sure what it’s like elsewhere but at least in Australia it’s not objectively cheaper to use airbnb than a hotel. So if you’re paying the same rate, you don’t expect to have to follow a bunch of extra rules that wouldn’t apply to the other

htss2013 3 days ago

I also expect "somebody's house" to be cleaner than a hotel. — Why would you expect that someone’s entire house is cleaner than a small hotel room that professional crews clean every single day?

analog31 a day ago

Granted I don't stay in the most expensive hotels. But the "professional crews" may very well be overworked and understaffed, and not managed with sufficient attention to quality.

jmyeet 3 days ago

Airbnb illustrates two points really well:

1. Just like all the add-on charges with air travel like having a checked bag or choosing a seat, a lot of negative experiences come from consumers making decisions solely based on price. This creates an incentive to leave things out to have a lower sticker price. Hotels with non-optional "resort" fees, cruises, and car rental all operate on this model.

The specific issue with Airbnb is the supposed lower cost comes for hiding costs like cleaning. Cleaning is expensive when you start talking about an apartment let alone a house. This is built in to the hotel price (minus tips, which are minor). Also, hotels avoid having the potential for a lot of cleaning (eg a full kitchen).

You might stay in an Airbnb and never use the kitchen, existing totally on eating out. Or you might cook a full Thanksgiving dinner for 20 people and use every dish and appliance in there. How are you meant to handle this when the cleaning cost could be $100 or $1000?

2. Airbnb like oh so many "tech" companies profits by pushing the negative externalities of their business onto people who didn't consent. The most notable negative externality is running an illegal hotel in a residential neighborhood. Hotels have staff, fire codes, licensing and inspections. Some random house does not.

Another is that the house owner never has to suffer from disruptive behavior from guests who may never return. I really think more places should restrict Airbnb to ADUs only when the owner is on-site.

Also, the evidence that Airbnb has driven up rents is undeniable at this point with more than a decade of evidence.

At the same time, hosts clearly profit off of unreasonable charges, like charging $300-500 to "clean" a studio apartment that might only take an hour. It's a bit like landlords stealing security deposits. It's particularly egregious when you're given a random list of tasks you must do, such as stripping sheets and starting wash cycles, etc.

Intermediation businesses are generally bad. The only way to increase profits at a certain point is by cutting costs and raising prices. The other parties want to avoid the middleman charges and go direct. It's why all these businesses like finding cleaners, tutors, etc all only go so far because people go off-platform.

satvikpendem 3 days ago

Airbnb shows the total price now.

amanzi 4 days ago

I've been an Airbnb host for the last 3 years. We've never expected guests to do any cleaning or washing of dishes (although it's always appreciated when they do!) We charge a small cleaning fee to cover the costs of cleaning our studio which only takes an hour. We also have maintained a really high rating over the last few years (currently at 4.96). I would hope that other rentals that have ridiculous rules and high cleaning fees would suffer from average ratings?

drivingmenuts 4 days ago

Out of curiosity, why is the cleaning fee not included into the rental rate? Is it required to be listed separately or does that simplify accounting somehow?

LastTrain 4 days ago

It is a dark pattern causing the advertised rate to be lower so the listing will get included in more filters etc.

[edit] I checked and they changed this in April of 2025, as of then the fee is rolled up in the advertised rate.

Arainach 4 days ago

Because this way they can lie to you and offer low rates to pull you in until you go to check out.

amanzi 4 days ago

Airbnb includes the cleaning fee (and other fees) in the advertised price. I just checked our own listing and it shows the total cost.

Arainach 4 days ago

For a very long time they didn't. They still don't by default in the US, only in certain jurisdictions.

seanmcdirmid 4 days ago

Maybe to encourage longer stays? The cleaning fee is paid once per stay, not once per night. I get why it is a separate charge, since they aren't cleaning the place daily (like a hotel), only at the end of your stay.

amanzi 4 days ago

For us, we charge the same cleaning fee whether you stay for 1 night or 7 nights. So I don't know how we can incorporate that into the nightly fee without either over-charging or under-charging for cleaning. Having it listed separately keeps it consistent and clear to guests.

Rebelgecko 4 days ago

In some locales, it is included

facet1ous 4 days ago

That was entirely on Airbnb for presenting it that way. Hosts would enter in their per-reservation cleaning cost so it could be integrated into the price paid by guests, but Airbnb stubbornly itemized it on the checkout page for years. I believe they finally did away with it (in favor of building into the nightly rate) about a year ago.

jonathanlydall 3 days ago

My father runs a few guest suites and he explained to me why the cleaning fee is really helpful in terms of keeping a room's price reasonable per night but him not getting a bad deal for a single night guest.

The more often you wash linen then the faster it wears out and needs to be replaced.

While he has a cleaner who daily makes the bed and does basic cleaning (labour is far more affordable in South Africa), on checkout rooms need a more proper clean with additional use of a cleaning detergents.

Without a cleaning fee which is charged per stay, you'd have to increase the per night fee to cater for single night guests.

With the cleaning fee he can still keep per night rates as low as possible with single night guests still covering their actual overheads.

AlotOfReading 4 days ago

The market is more complicated than that, unfortunately. Some properties can sustain high ratings on their other strengths (e.g. location, decor, view, heritage) regardless of the host rules and the clientele that's interested in them. There's also a problem with the rental market getting very thin for some locations and property types (e.g. 3+ bedrooms), so ratings effectively stop mattering.

As a personal example, I once stayed at a place that charged a $150 cleaning fee, but also required dishes + taking the trash out and down the street, which wasn't known until we opened the door. And of course there was a threat that failure to do so would incur a fee. Also a bit of ceiling plaster fell on my wife during the night. Still had a fantastic rating because it was a castle and I'd stay there again if someone else paid.

hn_throwaway_99 4 days ago

I wonder if the bloom is coming off the Airbnb rose (probably not, because these kinds of things are always made a big deal of in tech forums but the company in question usually sees their revenue go up and up).

For me personally I only ever use Airbnb's now for big trips with at least 3-4 bedrooms needed. These types of Airbnbs usually have more professional management in any case. But otherwise I think Airbnb just offers a poor value:

1. For a long time Airbnbs skirted hotel taxes and other fees. Those days are long gone, so I often find Airbnbs to be just as expensive or more than hotels when you factor in cleaning and other fees.

2. Like this article points out, quality control and rules can be all over the map, and people are sick of it. With a hotel you usually know what you're getting, with an Airbnb it's always a crapshoot.

3. A huge benefit with a hotel is that if something goes wrong you can almost always be moved to another room, sometimes a different hotel. With Airbnb, while they may help you rebook it's much more fraught and you don't know what the next place will be.

So for me I use hotels for most stays now, though I am curious about house swapping for longer overseas trips. I have friends that have raved about it so it just seems like a better option.

Markoff 3 days ago

I am using airbnb only for family vacations in summer for 7+ days minimum, they offer way better prices than local hotels plus I can cook or dine at home (which you can't really do in hotel, so I don't get people complaining here about doing dishes and comparing it to hotel experience) without wasting time/money on restaurants (plus there are not really hotels in locations I prefer).

I try to leave airbnb in exact same condition as it was upon our arrival (obviously I am not washing sheets). After reading comments here I feel weird or is this difference between Americans and Europeans? Do HN readers like to live like pigs to stay in mess and leave mess after themselves?

edit: I checked my airbnb receipts and I see everywhere only Airbnb service fee, there is no extra cleaning fee on any of them, if they charged extra money for some cleaning fee maybe my approach would be different

hintymad 3 days ago

I’d rather use Booking because I didn’t have to worry about doing chores for the hosts. It was a much better experience.

mancerayder 3 days ago

Airbnb was an amazing experience the first few years of its existence. As someone sensitive to noise, hotels are never quiet - I'll either get woken up at 1a by slamming doors or at 7a by slamming doors or the room being made up in the adjacent room. Or I'll hear people in the adjacent room or above and I'll go crazy. Also there's that tiny little fridge where you ask them to empty it so you can fit a water bottle or two.

Airbnb offered more space and also a kitchen so I can save money cooking, and in big cities it was amazing. It still is in vacation spots when renting a whole house. But it's very very risky. Fact - hosts can get negative reviews censored by Airbnb support, as in sentences deleted or the whole review removed. If you don't believe me: first go to all your old reviews and see what remains. Second look at the bizarre grammatical structure of sentences on reviews. Little essays turn into fragments.

Also check the Airbnb subreddit. First notice how hosts tell each other how to get reviews removed. Second look how they view guests - as entitled garbage.

That to me is the bigger scam, the reviews thing. I'll happily take out the trash, just don't lie to me by removing half of the opinion spectrum. Oh and also I'm sick of having construction next door in almost every Airbnb I've stayed at the last two or three years. What gives?

wdb 4 days ago

If I had places that would ask for a copy of my ID before giving me access codes to enter the place but wasn't mentioned on the listing. Also listed there was a kitchen but there weren't any plates or glasses... They charged $10 for bed linen etc. Also wasn't mentioned in the listing. AirBnB can be really annoying. Often they aren't cheaper than apart-hotels.

laweijfmvo 3 days ago

i wish they would ban additional “rules” in the check in/out instructions. all rules should be up front before booking or after booking with free 24 cancellation or something.

juiceland 3 days ago

I'm certain that I've stayed in an AirBnB or two that had a rule book and chores, but I never read them. I'm a fairly tidy person and generally clean as I go, but I don't go out of my way to clean dishes or take out the trash unless it really needs it. I also don't leave reviews of places I stay, nor do I read the reviews left for me.

aunty_helen 3 days ago

I once had to corner a guy trying to cut himself with a broken piece of mirror before he jumped off a second story balcony into the pool at a multi airbnb complex in Mexico. He'd taken some drugs and had a bad reaction and lost his mind. Cops picked him up running down the street.

I welcome this move to ban host rules that detract from the experience.

dcrazy 3 days ago

What does your anecdote have to do with this rule change? People take drugs and jump off the balconies at hotels too.

satvikpendem 3 days ago

It's such a funny non sequitur to read, I could imagine the entire story.

nisanthan 4 days ago

I've used Airbnbs for group trips only. The past few years, I have been leaning towards hotels for trips. But the newer hotels with the "open concept" bathrooms are not great for sharing a room with a friend. As a consumer, these changes puts Airbnb back in favor for me.

jadar 3 days ago

I don’t seem to have had all of the negative experiences that others here are reporting. Most of the recent places I have stayed have been clean and recently renovated. Usually the same or maybe slightly cheaper than a hotel room.

nothercastle 3 days ago

The company is down 20% in web traffic this year and has serious reputational damage from years of ignoring fraud and poor customer service. It’s going to be hard to turn it around

randycupertino 3 days ago

Personally I'll never book an airbnb again after the 21-page binder of rules and tasks we got at a ski house airbnb that legit had 3.5 hours of chores for the checkout process. It was everything from turn off the individual water lines to all four toilets (I guess so they wouldn't freeze) to do a full load of laundry, wash and dry and put away towels, vacuum, change and put on fresh sheets, shovel the side walks and driveway, take in the mail, clean the inside of the fireplace, put chemical shock in the hot tub. We tried our best and still go dinged because the hot tub cover wasn't scrubbed well enough. We wiped it down!

Never again. I haven't booked an airbnb in 12 years and I never will again.

nothercastle 2 days ago

Stories like yours are the reputational damage I’m taking about. It should take a hell of a turn around to undo that damage. I don’t see public companies being able to take years off increasing costs and sales declines (the damage is already done and bleeding won’t stop immediately and loosing bad hosts will cost some money) to address these problems.